There is a well-meaning but inaccurate infographic in the behavior world that proclaims that ‘it takes three days for your new dog to decompress, three weeks for your new dog to learn your routine, and three months for your new dog to start to feel at home’. There are easily close to one hundred versions […]
Building Trust with Time: The Importance of Decompression for Adopted Dogs
Decompression is Good for Everyone All dogs, especially fearful dogs, benefit from a decompression period in their new home. Your new furry family member needs time to feel safe and understand the routines and expectations of her new household with minimal stress, and you should take the time to become an “expert” on your new […]
The Hidden Struggle: Navigating Everyday Life with a Fearful Dog
Living with a fearful dog can be hard. Concentrating all your resources on the well-being of a dog who struggles to adapt to your busy world can often lead to mental exhaustion, emotional burnout, physical stress, financial hardship, and even strained relationships. While compassion fatigue is widely accepted as a serious issue in the human […]
Force is Never the Answer When Training Your Dog
Modern dog training takes time, patience, and force-free methods. I made the mistake of watching a video clip the other day on social media that featured a dog trainer speaking to an enthralled audience. She had a commanding presence and spoke with great authority while using what appeared to be an audience member’s dog to […]
The Best Equipment For Walking Your Fearful Dog
Safety on walks, including the best equipment to keep your XO Dog safe and secure, is a concern for everyone who lives with a fearful dog. My rule of thumb is to have two points of connection anytime you and your furry friend venture forth. This “belt and suspender” approach ensures that if one piece […]